As far as choosing a romantic partner, sociological cues come into place. This has to do with proximity and how youcan maintain a long distance relationship. This is something i have tried before and will never try again. I think there needs to be more connection that that. As far as preinteraction cues, I am very picky here. I look for a girl that doesn't look too high maintenance. Any girl that has tons of makeup on with a designer purse and appears as if she is shopping all of the time really leads me to believe that these people are too concerned with material possesions and I think there is a lot more to life than that. This plays into cognitive cues as well. This kind of material attitude often times leads these types of people to think they are somehow better than other people.
Ducks realtional dissolution model is pretty accurate, although much of the time there is a lack of the dyadic phase. Partners often don't explain the reasons why they want to get out of the relationship, they simply leave. There is always the grave dressing phase when people reflect on what went wrong in the relationship and whatthey did wrong. This is a very accurate model though and i do agree with it.
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